Wednesday, July 19, 2006

A Love-Hate Relationship

I can't think of anything to write about, so I thought I'd make a list of things I love and hate as of today. I know that "love" and "hate" are strong words, but I am using them here even though many things on this list may be temporary. Like/Dislike may be better, but they don’t flow nicely in list format.

I LOVE:
  • my zipperless/buttonless wardrobe
  • my belly
  • swimming
  • my short hair
  • my husband (not temporary)
  • craigslist
  • shrimp tacos
  • baby kicks
  • HGTV
  • planning a bunch of really cool projects to work on and actually working on some of them

I HATE:

  • looking at the scale, knowing I still have 2 more months of weight gain to go
  • listening to/watching people talk with their mouth full
  • daily afternoon backaches
  • insurance
  • random nausea
  • charlie horses

Thursday, July 13, 2006

The Cat was Almost Let Out of the Bag

Jake came home from work yesterday with a bag from Last Chance. He had purchased some decor for our baby's nursery. When he pulled it out of the bag, he showed it to me and said "I got these for _________'s room", right in front of my mom. I stared at him to see if he realized what he had done, and he had, so he casually re-said his sentence, "I got these for Baby's room".

My mom's head was in the fridge during the whole conversation, and she didn't flinch when Jake said it, so we weren't sure if she heard and was just playing cool, or if she missed it completely due to the sounds of the fridge motor.

We decided that if she did hear, we'd just let the name go out into the open, but if not, our little game was still on. I approached her and asked if she heard, and she was completely shocked and disappointed that she hadn't. She was 3 feet away from it, but didn't catch it. Silly fridge.

Sorry everyone! Guess you'll just have to wait another 11 weeks.

Thursday, July 06, 2006

A San Francisco Treat

Thanks to the wedding of a brother-in-law, Jake and I got to spend the 4th of July weekend in San Francisco. We enjoyed great food and great sites, and we really enjoyed our long weekend off of work.

Note to self for future trips to San Francisco: Do not drive through the Italian District just as Italy wins its soccer game again. It will be really loud and crowded. It's a good thing Jake looks Italian, or we may have had some problems.

Here are some of the highlights from the rest of the trip.

We drove up a bridge leading into heaven.

We visited the Golden Gate Bridge.
Jake played frisbee at a park with his brother and dad.
We drove down the coast and visited the beaches.
We saw a lot of beautiful flowers.
We found some sunbathing turtles.

And we found this little guy checking us out
as we walked through Golden Gate Park.
We had a very fun and relaxing time. It was great to spend time in a big city. Our next vacation will include a baby and all the gear babies like to tow around with them, so we were very grateful for this trip!

Thursday, June 29, 2006

Quite A Change

Okay, here is my big post I warned about last week.

Saturday Morning:

Saturday Afternoon:

Saturday Evening:

Hmmm, it appears from the last picture that my haircut is lopsided, but it's not. I must have been just turning my head or something.

My ponytail will soon be shipped off to Locks of Love. I've always wanted to do this for some reason, so I figured that my pregnancy hormones would give me a good chance to get the 10" of ponytail I needed to donate. I also convinced a long-haired cousin of mine to do the same thing, so stay tuned to her blog for pictorial updates as well.

Oh, and here's a picture from the same day that gives a good tummy size update. 6 months 9 days today. (and as of Tuesday, I am officially in my 3rd trimester).

Maternity Clothes

WARNING: Venting blog. Probably worth skipping today.

Why do clothing designers think that all pregnant women are middle-aged or retired? Why do Motherhood jeans come with huge hips and tapered bottoms? Do they not know that the national average age of a woman when she gives birth to her first child is 25? Do 25-year-old women like flabby tapered jeans? Then why would they like them when they're pregnant?

Why do I find myself wishing that the Junior section of a store had maternity wear? It's not that I would wish pregnancy or motherhood on any teen-aged girl, it's that I wish the clothing I can find in their section came with an elastic waistband.

My only friend at this point seems to be Old Navy. However, their selection was quite slim this morning, and I was left sifting through all their piles of clothes for my size, only to walk away empty handed. This was superbly frustrating. Mind you, I was trying on clothing that was still marked at FULL PRICE. For those of you who know me well, you will know that I probably do not currently own a piece of clothing that I paid full price for. It's just not in my blood to do something like that. I have a really hard time spending money on myself, but I am getting desperate. Nothing fits the bottom half of my body anymore.

I find myself longing for the weekend not because of a break from work, but because I can wear my lounge wear all day, and I don't have to worry about finding something to fit into to go to work. I feel pretty pathetic right now cause I just realized that my inlaws have probably only seen me wear one pair of pants since we moved here, since I wear them every Saturday.

If anyone needs me this afternoon, I'll be the one screaming in frustration in the Maternity section of various stores around Mesa.

Monday, June 26, 2006

Baby Girl Names

After hours and hours of harassment, Jake and I have decided to reveal our top baby name choices for everyone. We feel it will just be easier to let them be known than to be bugged about it all the time. Please feel free to vote for your favorites and let us know how you feel about them. As you can see, each of the names has a very special meaning to each of us.

(in no particular order)

1. La-Fon-Duh (from a movie we both like)
2. Ewis (similar to a family name)
3. Abjacób (our names combined)
4. Jenny (Jake's 4th grade crush)
5. Ethel (my cat)
6. Randy (the brother I never had, yet the subject of an essay Mike wrote)
7. Julie (my favorite character from Saturday's Warrior growing up)
8. Toro (our high school mascot)
9. Shane (named after my favorite radio commercials)
10. Alexanderwood (street)
11. Bardette (similar to a family name)
12. Lisianthus (my favorite flower)
13. Eagle (to remind us that Jake is not an Eagle Scout)
14. Jakigail (another name combination option)
15. P.C. (showing our support for non-apple computers [plus, Apple is already taken])

I hope this will ease the pestering and help everyone to feel as informed as they should be. We hope you can help narrow down our name selection. Thanks!

Friday, June 23, 2006

My Name Twin

Say hello to my name twin. She is from London and we basically live identical lives. She is an assistant at a consulting firm. I am an assistant at a law firm. She spent 6 months in the "dispute resolution department", which is exactly like the grievance and appeals department at my last job in Phoenix (where I spent 6 months). She also used the word "whilst" in her profile, which I love. It's probably more frequently used in England, but I still enjoyed reading it. (Thanks Jill for the idea).

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

4 Jobs in 4 Weeks

My life is completely different than what it was one month ago (well, completely different during regular business hours, pretty much the same the rest of the day). I started out a month ago at PPEP in Tucson, then moved to Mesa, where I quickly acquired a temp position with a well-known insurance company. However, the job described to me was far from the actual position, so I had to make a decision: either explode on the inside or quit. So I now have on my record a 2 1/2 week job. Nice. I worked there until last Wednesday. Last Thursday I started working for my mom at her law firm. I'm not sure what my title is, but it something like, "Awesome Attorney Assitant Extrodinaire-temp".

(Have you been keeping track? That's 3 jobs)

Then, on Saturday, I started my Saturday job - answering the phones for my dad's chem-dry business. It's commission only though, so it really varies on the pay I'll be making from it.

Stay tuned for my BIG post - sometime between Saturday and Monday. It's going to be HUGE news. And awesome. (no, Stephanie, I'm not going to reveal baby girl's name)

Monday, May 22, 2006

Settling In

Jake and I arrived in Mesa about a week ago, and have almost completely settled in. The original plan was to stay with his parents, but we decided that they have enough on their plate right now with a wedding in the works and some other guests planned for next month. So we moved into my parents' basement. We did some major cleaning and renovations to our area, and now it's beginning to feel like home. Temporary home, that is.

One big change for me was doing laundry with sleepy kitties nearby. Ethel has always loved a damp towel, and my hang-to-dry pile of clothes were an inviting place for a nap for her. Fred just sleeps all the time.

Friday, May 12, 2006

Changes on the Horizon

Today is my last day of work. I don't mind because I'm not friends with anyone here. I'm not going to miss anyone except for maybe an occasional 'I miss my co-workers' type thing. No one except my boss officially knew I was pregnant until yesterday, when someone asked cause they said I was starting to show (it's a good thing I am pregnant, or that would have been pretty embarrassing). I say no one "officially" knew because I could hear whispers and I could see tummy glances for a couple of weeks now, from the people too scared to ask me anything.

Anyway, Jake's last final ends at noon today, and then we can start packing. That's right, we haven't started packing for our move this weekend yet. Jake's 2-week final period is so intensive that it's impossible for him to focus on other tasks, so we decided it would be best to just wait and do everything today and tomorrow. I started a little by cleaning up the extra bedroom (aka nursery) and doing laundry, but we have a long way to go. Plus, my primary presidency decided not to find a replacement for me even though they got a 5-week notice that we were moving, so I told them I could be at church on Sunday to teach my class.

So, I will see all of the Mesanites on Monday. We'll throw a pool party or something next week, since I hear it hit 100 degrees in the valley this week.

Thursday, May 11, 2006

Front Yard Updates

I just wanted to show some pictures of our new and improved blooming front yard.


Here is one of our 2 yellow lantanas. I was telling Jake the other day that if we lived in any other state besides Arizona, I wouldn't think this is beautiful, but here, anything with color is magnificent.


And here is what I like to call our willow tree. It's really one of our 2 mesquite trees. About a month ago, this was nothing but sticks and huge thorns. Now it's out of control. I absolutely love it, but I know we have to do something about it soon since it's taking over our side yard and our neighbor's yard too.

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

The Ultrasound

Well, you are probably all here for one reason. It’s because Jake and I
had our baby ultrasound today and you are all probably wondering how it
is doing. Well to let everyone know, the baby has 10 fingers & 10 toes
and appears to be very healthy all around. Our assistant’s name was Alla
and she spoke with a very thick German accent, but we enjoyed working
with her a lot. So I guess the big question on everyone’s mind now is if I
am having a boy or a girl. Well, let’s just say that you’ll have to look for
the answer in the text, because it’s hidden very carefully. Don’t tell
anyone what it is if you figure it out, but let me know if you do.

Friday, May 05, 2006

Cathy's Pants

I am too big for most of my pants. Too big for all of them if it wasn't for my friend Rubber Band. But I am too small for maternity wear. Plus I don't have any yet, which also makes it hard for me to wear. However, I do have one thing that has helped me through this awkward stage in my life: Cathy's pants.

(on the right)

I am blessed with a sister who is a size bigger than me. Now, this might not seem like a blessing to her, but it is. Cathy was fortunate enough to go through this thing people call "puberty" when she was a teenager. She grew in all the right places, and so she is an average girl now with these things called "hips". I on the other hand, skipped that phase. Or, I guess I should say I decided to enter it way late, leaving me with very little time to mature. I ended up with a flat butt. So I wear (wore) small sized pants. Cathy wears regular sized pants. And now I get to too, thanks to my weekend in Mesa last week and my ability to take some of her jeans back to Tucson before she realized it.

I guess I'll have to go shopping soon.

Thursday, May 04, 2006

My Trip to Mesa

Last Wednesday, I took a mini-vacation to Mesa. This was for 2 reasons: First, Jake started finals last week, and had an 8-hour final on Friday that I didn't want to be a distraction for. And second, I'm quitting my job in 2 weeks and they don't pay out my accrued vacation time. I've worked for 6 months straight without taking a day off, I think I deserve something.

Anyway, I spent the end of last week reading books to Mabel, running around with Oliver, watching HGTV, looking for a summer job, and just relaxing.

On Thursday, I decided to go visit my old job in Phoenix. As I was driving down the freeway in Tempe, I noticed that Jake's brother was driving next to me, so I got to see him too. He was a little surprised to see me.

Here is a picture of Oliver Saturday morning after we accidentally let him stay up past his bedtime on Friday night.


p.s. Check back Tuesday to hear our baby gender news!

Monday, April 24, 2006

The Belly Growth

Upon an anonymous request (We'll call the requestor "Robin" from here on out for ease of typing purposes) I am posting a profile picture.


This is me at 17 weeks, 6 days. (aka-This morning)

It turns out I'm kind of "S" shaped at the moment. The section between my ribs and my belly button has expanded - probably from all of my intestines being squished together - and it makes me look wide all over. But even with that, there is still a little belly there.

My 2 roughest pregnancy symptoms: Major acne and massive hair loss. "Robin" says those are normal though.

Friday, April 21, 2006

How Well Do You Know Me?

How well do you know me?? For instance, did you know...

Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. Flower Delivery Girl/Front Counter Girl (3 separate shops)
2. Lifeguard
3. Administrative Assistant
4. Paper Boy

Four movies I would watch over and over:
1. That Thing You Do
2. Empire Records
3. Saturday’s Warrior
4. The Ultimate Aquarium Video

Four cars I have owned:
1. Red 1992 Geo Storm
2. White 1993 Honda Civic
3. White 2000 Chevy Prizm
4. White 2001 Chevy Prizm
(currently own BOTH #3 & #4)

Four places I have lived (i.e. the only places I have ever lived):
1. Mesa
2. Provo
3. Scottsdale (1st married apt)
4. Tucson

Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. The Office
2. Scrubs
3. Wheel of Fortune
4. Most anything on HGTV

Four favorite places I have been on vacation:
1. Massachusetts
2. Bahamas
3. Mexico (Rocky Point & Cabo)
4. The Dominican Republic

Four websites I visit daily:
1. Blogs
2. MySpace
3. craigslist
4. More Blogs

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Ice Cream
2. Subway (new favorite with my growing belly)
3. Junior Mints
4. Potatoes

Four of my least favorite foods:
1. Coconut
2. Sushi
3. French Toast
4. Oatmeal

Four favorite restaurants:
1. Mint Thai (Gilbert)
2. Miss Saigon (Tucson)
3. Rosa’s (Mesa)
4. I like to try anything local (usually out of the Entertainment Book)

Four places I would rather be right now:
1. At home
2. Visiting Mesa
3. On a beach
4. anywhere with Jake

Four things that annoy me:
1. Talking with your mouth full
2. Tucson drivers pulling out in front of you
3. Cigarette smoke
4. Coffee breath

Four words I can never spell right the first time:
1. Restaurant
2. Genius
3. Hotmail (“hotamil” when I type too fast)
4. Marriage

Four favorite holidays:
1. Halloween
2. Thanksgiving
3. Easter
4. Anything that takes Jake out of school

Thursday, April 20, 2006

Chocolate Bunnies

I love most all Easter candy. I love Peeps, Cadbury eggs, and all the regular candy turned pastel. But something I especially love is the chocolate bunny. Now, don't get me wrong, I had one this year and it was pretty gross (I think they changed the recipe or something), but it's tradition. Every year, my family would have an Easter egg hunt in our living room on Easter morning, and there would be 4 chocolate bunnies hidden throughout the area. These bunnies were so popular, that the Easter Bunny had to label them so that each child got one.

Well, this year while I was shopping for Jake's Easter basket, I came across a chocolate bunny that was about 14-15" tall, but wasn't in any plastic wrap. I walked up to it to examine it further, and then tried to pierce it with my fingernail (that's also how I tell if plants are real - some fake plants look so lifelike). Anyway, it didn't pierce, so I realized that I was dealing with a FAKE chocolate bunny. I thought it was awesome. Of course I couldn't buy it, it was still before Easter. So, this morning, I went back to the store and they still had them, but they weren't marked down yet. I picked one up and was examining it, and a store clerk came up to me, asked me if I wanted it, took it, turned it over, and priced it at a DOLLAR. It was the best part of my morning.

So now I own my very own chocolate bunny statue. It's our first Easter decoration. Jake and I also began our Christmas decoration collection this year too (I say this year because we only bought stuff in January). Living in a house allows for more storage, and thus more stuff. We kept our "stuff" down to a minimum whilst in the 480 square foot apartment we used to live in. But now we get to decorate for the holidays. It's great.

Friday, April 14, 2006

Lucky

I have a brother (who will go unnamed) who is one of the luckiest people I know. Well, he's wrecked every car my parents have ever owned, but besides that, unbelivably lucky. His friends even noticed how lucky he always is. We call it "Mike's Luck". But again, I'm not going to tell you who I'm talking about.

Anyway, I hadn't met anyone as lucky as my brother until I met my husband. Jake has an incredible ability to win things. He wins radio call-in contests on a regular basis. Who wins those? I'll tell you - it's Jake. Just this week, he called into the WB TV show, needing to be the 1st caller, and won us 4 tickets to Old Tucson Studios and dinner for 4 at Blimpie (which is extremely fortunate for me because my baby LOVES subs for some reason).

Previous Winnings:
A prom package (in high school) including tux rental, dinner, & a limo driven by the radio DJ
Tickets to a Coyotes game (won on 2 separate occasions)
Tickets to a Suns game (also won on 2 separate occasions)
Tickets to a Diamondbacks game
5 lunches at Whataburger
Easter brunch at a fancy Phoenix restaurant (gave that one away)
Charlie Daniels Band tickets

Its pretty great to be married to a winner.

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

My New Friend

Meet my new friend. His name is Rubber Band.

Rubber Band helps me to wear my regular pants as my belly starts to expand. Rubber Band also makes long shirts a necessity. Here are some pictures of me in my work clothes yesterday. Okay, it's every part of me but my head because I didn't like how I looked. I tried to take a picture from the side, but it didn't turn out either. The picture wasn't my exact profile, and it made me look more pregnant that I actually look. I didn't want to get anyone's hopes up yet. Right now I just look like I'm putting on a few extra belly pounds.

Aren't my shoes cute? They're from Jake's mom.

Tuesday, April 11, 2006

The 9 Month Itch

Jake and I have lived in 3 places since we've been married.

#1 - The Scottsdale - 9 months

#2 - Windscape - 9 months

We were so glad to buy a house because it meant that we would be somewhere actually permanent, even if permanent might mean only 3 years. 3 years is a lot better than 9 months. So we made the move to Tucson into our wonderful new house (#3).


And then we learned that we will be moving - temporarily - after living here for--any guesses?

Yep. 9 months.

Jake has accepted a summer internship at a law firm in Phoenix, and we will be moving back to Mesa for 3 months. We thought about staying here and having Jake commute, but we figured out we'd be better off just packing up and heading over.

So, come May 15th, we'll be back in good ol' Mesa AZ.